Friday, March 27, 2009

Smile... it's a start.

It's cliche... but sometimes all you need is a smile.

Once upon a time, I was a freshman at Oshkosh North High School, and I ate school lunch. Everyday I would slug through a line of ravenous high school eaters to order my usual: turkey and mozzarella on wheat. And everyday, I paid the same lunch lady. And she never smiled. My mission: get the lunch lady to grin. Just once.

Just an average day and the same routine: turkey and mozzarella on wheat. Same progression through the same line. But this was it. As I approached to pay the lunch lady, I flashed a smile, handed her my cash, and asked simply, "What's your name?"

A pause. A hesitation. A look in the eye. A gentle whisper. A small grin. "Betty."

"Hi, Betty! I'm Katy. It's nice to meet you. I hope you have a great day!"

"You too."

Mission accomplished.

There's power in knowing someone's name. There's importance in a smile.

Challenge: smile. At friends and family. And total strangers on the train or bus. At yourself in the mirror. You might be surprised by the result.

3 comments:

Anastasia said...

hey!
thanks for reading bo rap (bohemian rhapsody)!
is this the start to a story or just a random chapter?
either way, i think it's really lovely.
i actually got up and smiled at myself in the mirror.
*hair flip*
i don't mean to sound selfish but my smile in pretty awesome!
lol
anyway, this is the start to a great blog/story.

anastasia<3:)

PS: i found you on flickr! lol i added you as my friend! but be afraid it's only me :] lol

MonicaDee said...

such a wonderful and powerful, yet simple thing: a smile. Many people see me as 'the one that you can count on for a smile' and I'm blessed to have been able to bless people with such a simple gesture. A smile..

Be the change you wish to see in the world :)

I want to see happiness ...

so I'm going to SMILE.

EmFabulousFunshine said...

I followed you from a comment you left at bo rap...i like your message :)